Your missing my point, it's mostly my fault. I'm a terrible communicator in general.
Not denying anything you said at all, and 10 years ago I probably would have posted something similar. But with more life experiences you will eventually learn to put your time and passion into something more meaningful in life. It's a video game, don't let it upset you, no matter how much you love it. You really "should" be playing it to have fun (IN MY OPINION) not post on forums about how it used to be better or it's not balanced or even if you think it's perfect.
Just go enjoy it. That's all.
I certainly think I should put a significant part of my time and passion into discussing gaming related topics, seeing as I'm currently en route to becoming a game designer myself. To say that this is something not worth discussing is to say that there is no legitimacy to discussing games at all, and please do not be one of those people who thinks games are nothing but a source of entertainment and who actively tries to stop discussion about them. I'm not calling you out as being that, but it seems to me that that's where this is headed. Correct me if I'm wrong. Of course this isn't all I put my time and passion into, nor is it all any sane person would put this into, but it's certainly something important enough to be worth discussing. People dedicate themselves to things of equal or lesser value, just look at the number of people for whom American Football is the essence of life. Telling people to not discuss that would get you lynched (metaphorical speaking) in some parts of the world.
We absolutely enjoy playing the game, but there is a lot more to it than that, and telling people what they should be focussed on is silly. Everyone has to carve their own path, so if you feel that it's not worth discussing then don't join in, but trying to make other people stop doesn't help anyone.
Also, if this is worth yelling about and calling people idiots over then I don't see how you can make the claim that this topic shouldn't be discussed.